My son’s scenario got me thinking about the distinction between ‘going through the motions’ of playing a game and really playing it.
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Where In Life Are You Pretending That You Don’t Have A Choice?
Many of us appear to be under the illusion that we are somehow controlled by the power of others. And therefore no choice but stuck in life.
Continue readingWho is Your Doppelgänger?
I wonder if other people feel the same way about their doppelgängers? Perhaps it’s harder than we think to look in the mirror.
Continue readingWhen did you last move towards fear?
Is there anything in your life that you have been avoiding because you fear ‘I can’t do that’? Based on my little victory, I would encourage you to face that demon.
Continue readingHow Do You Keep A Long-Term Relationship Alive?
How can we cut through the fog of activity and preserve that delicate thread of physical / intellectual / emotional intimacy?
Continue readingDo You Remember What It’s Like To Go Without?
Few of us today lack basic food, warmth or other primary needs compared with back then. Of course we all want more than we have – but generally we have a lot.
I sometimes wonder if deliberately depriving ourselves of a few luxuries every so often might not be such a bad thing.
Continue readingHow to Become a Better Leader in Times of Change
To me, this is less about ‘re-inventing’ yourself and more about dialling up certain personal attributes and others down in a deliberate manner.
Continue readingDoes Stress Cripple or Sharpen You?
If you believe that stress has the potential to cripple you, it will. If you see stress as an inevitable – even necessary – part of a rich and vibrant life, it will be.
Continue readingWho Would You Be in Your Dual Life?
What does your Dual Life say about who you are & what is important to you at your core? Perhaps what is missing from your life currently?
The Dual Life is a practical, creative way of stimulating new thinking about how to increase coherence and fulfilment in life.
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